Everything Is (Not) Fine
 

Everything Is (Not) Fine

Finding Strength When Life Gets Annoyingly Difficult

by Katie Schnack

Everything Is (Not) Fine
paperback
  • Length: 192 pages
  • Dimensions: 5.5 × 8.5 in
  • Published: September 26, 2023
  •  Forthcoming
  • ISBN: 978-1-5140-0614-6
  • Item Code: A0614

Sometimes the world knocks us flat on our butt.

We feel stretched further than we ever thought physically, emotionally, or spiritually possible. And though we are torn up inside, we feel like we need to keep our chin up and put a good face on things. So we pretend that everything is fine, even though it's not.

Even in the hardest times, strength from God rises from deep in our soul to keep us going. In this honest, inspirational, and humorous book, Katie Schnack goes deep into the hard stuff of life with no sugar coating or toxic positivity to find sustenance she could not imagine. Faced with a child's medical challenges in the midst of a global pandemic, having strength to get up in the morning and actually enjoy the day was so unlikely that she knew it had to come from God. Schnack's plucky authenticity shows us how when life is complicated, self-compassion and humor can bring healing and life.

Everything Is (Not) Fine looks at the hard realities of life, but also gently reminds us of the good. Even in dark times, we can get glimpses of light.

CONTENTS

Prologue: You are stronger than you realize. And so is God.

Part 1: Don't make it a thing until it's a thing.
1. Keep your eyes on the path and don't step in bear poop.
2. Listen to your kids singing, even if it is obnoxious.
3. It might not get easier. Sorry. But! You can get used to it.

Part 2: Give yourself a lot of grace when going through a pandemic.
4. Carve time for your dreams, even in a global crisis.
5. If you are missing your spouse, simply hide behind a houseplant.
6. Find your yellow Windex.

Part 3: Raising small human creatures is a wild journey.
7. Remember that God loves our kids too.
8. Chill out about parenting, especially during a modern-day apocalypse.
9. Be a joy vampire.
10. Stop placing all your hope for your family's future in Realtor.com.

Part 4: Don't talk about my best friend like that. A.k.a. be kind to yourself, boo.
11. Make friends with a firefighter who buys matching muumuus at Walmart with you.
12. Punch something hard until you feel better. Preferably not a human, however.
13. Write an anti-love letter. It's okay.
14. Don't hate your neck for the next fifty years.

Part 5: Ghosts, messy T-shirts, and chickens because all these things totally make sense together.
15. Fire your ghost butler.
16. Put your mess on a T-shirt and wear it proudly.
17. Act like a chicken for the sake of humanity.

Part 6: I would rather things be easy.
18. Ride the waves, even in the rain.
19. Sometimes life throws you a plot twist.

Conclusion

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Katie Schnack

Katie Schnack is a writer and book publicist. She is the author of The Gap Decade: When You're Technically an Adult but Really Don't Feel Like it Yet. Her articles have appeared in such places as Relevant, Today.com, Hello Giggles, Romper, and Scary Mommy. Katie and her family now live in West Palm Beach, Florida, on an acre of land with five chickens, three goats, and a senior mini pony.