1 Corinthians 13: Love of Christ

For more context before you begin studying, read this introduction to the book of 1 Corinthians.

Perhaps the most abused phrase in the English language is "I love you." Instead of communicating unselfish caring, it often expresses enlightened self-interest, manipulative affection or sheer lust. In 1 Corinthians 13 Paul not only defines love for us but shows us why this is the most excellent way to relate to anyone—especially to members of the family of God.

Warming Up to God

Think of a person who has truly loved you. What were the marks of that person's way of relating to you?

Read 1 Corinthians 13

Discovering the Word

• What is so tragic about using our gifts without love (vv. 1-3)?
• How would you define each of love's qualities (vv. 4-7)?
• In verses 8-13 Paul summarizes the supremacy of love. Compared with love, why do the spiritual gifts have limited value?
• Some understand the "perfection" in verse 10 as the completed New Testament, thus eliminating the need for tongues or prophecy today. Others understand it as the perfection we will experience when Christ returns. In light of Paul's other comparisons (vv. 11-12), which interpretation seems more likely? Explain.
• Why is love greater than faith or hope (v. 13)?

Applying the Word

• How can love lead to healthy interdependence in your relationships rather than unhealthy independence or dependence?
• Which aspect of love do you most need to develop?
• Besides telling us what love is, this passage gives us an incidental portrait of Jesus as the ultimate lover. Reread verses 4-7, replacing love with Jesus. What fresh picture of Jesus' care do you gain through this exercise?

Responding in Prayer

Ask Jesus Christ to teach you what it means to love.