Genesis 25:12—27:40: A Family Feud
CONTROVERSY AND QUARRELING among brothers, euphemistically called sibling rivalry, is prevalent in most families and is a part of growing up. It can be contained, however, if it is dealt with consistently and fairly. But when the parents show partiality and take sides, this struggle often becomes malignant and fatal to family unity. This study opens with the joy of long-awaited birth. After twenty years, Isaac and Rebekah have not just one son but twins. As the boys grow up, parental partiality develops with tragic consequences for family relationships. Yet throughout these events God works out his sovereign purpose and remains merciful to this family in spite of their failures. Not only can we profit from their mistakes, but we can also be encouraged by God's love for us even when we fail.
Warming Up to God
What one new event or piece of news can you share with Jesus today? Tell him a story and ask him to teach you as you continue reading the stories of Abraham, Isaac and now Jacob.
Read Genesis 25:12—27:40. »
Discovering the Word
- What difficulties and tests of faith do Isaac and Rebekah encounter in connection with the birth of their sons (25:19-22)?
- What does the incident in 25:29-34 reveal about the character of the two brothers?
- What specific promises does the Lord make to Isaac in reaffirming his covenant with Abraham (26:2-6, 23-25)?
- In 25:28 we learned that "Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob." How does this parental favoritism work itself out in the struggle recounted in 27:1-17?
- How does Jacob succeed in deceiving his father (27:18-29)?
Applying the Word
- Verse 34 states that Esau despised his birthright (his double portion of the inheritance and future role as head of the family). In what areas are you tempted to give up something spiritually valuable for the sake of something of little or no value?
- In what ways have you experienced the strength of your parents or been influenced by their weaknesses?
- How can you show equal love and care to family members with radically different personalities?
Responding in Prayer
Ask God to show you how to encourage better relationships in your own family or living situation.
For Further Study
Exploring the Old Testament, Volume 1: A Guide to the Pentateuch by Gordon Wenham